About Me

So many exceptional people are imparting wisdom and helping others in today’s landscape. I have utilized every means at my disposal and employed every modality to heal and release the T[t]raumas and programming that negatively impact me. I have learned what has and has not worked for me over the last 30 years as I have sought to heal the damage from my formative and teenage years. I want to emphasize that you are unique, and no one else is like you; therefore, your healing journey should be tailored to meet your specific needs. That is why I don’t have your answers; no one else will. I have learned which questions to ask to guide you to the answers you seek. Questions that expose your triggers and emotional patterns. I will show you how to follow the threads from those triggers to the T[t]raumas, programming, and belief systems that cause them.

I have struggled with triggers, repeating, and emotional patterns that made no sense for many years. I was trying to heal the symptoms causing my pain and suffering. Still, I never identified the root causes, such as the underlying belief systems, negative programming, or T[t]raumas. If you could imagine me like a dog chasing my tail, but never actually understanding why my tail wagged. I had to get out of my way and accept that my repeating patterns, triggers, and everything else were about me and not about my parents, siblings, or childhood. Yes, the roots of it all stemmed from my formative and teen years, and the damage caused by a brutal family, but I continued to program myself throughout my adult life. I had to reach a point where I wasn’t blaming everyone else for my problems to accept responsibility.

I had been telling myself a story that the abuses of my parents, the molestation and rape by my brother, the gay bashing and betrayal by my brother and father, were the cause of all my tribulations. I wasn’t telling myself that while these T[t]raumas and the negative programming I received from these people established a foundation that created me, I was ultimately responsible for my own life and the continued programming that persisted for many years beyond the familial abuses.

I needed to learn how to identify the root cause of fundamental problems, rather than just their symptoms. I needed to understand why the people whom I wanted to trust the most and feel protected by were the souls who kept hurting me. The constant betrayals were a pattern in which I was equally responsible.

Struggling for over 30 years to find healing, peace, stability, and grace left me still besieged until I created the Melchizedek Healing Methodology. It is a combination of many healing modalities. My healing practices have enabled me to strip away many of the repeating patterns, triggers, T[t]raumas, negative programs, and negative belief systems. I have finally found myself crafting the man I want to be, and no longer living the way others programmed me to exist. I am eager to teach each of you how the Melchizedek Healing Methodology can positively impact you. What do you have to lose but everything that has you stuck in pain and misery?

I am a certified Trauma Coach